We are always told, for as long as we can remember, we ought to have a goal in life (what do you want to become when you grow up?).
Once we figure out that goal, day by day and little by little we create a pathway to get to it. That pathway has a few obvious milestones (a few other not so obvious), and those tell us whether we are getting closer to our final destination or not.
But… How many times do we shape our pathway according to unconscious demands and unconscious wishes?
Those unconscious demands are designed not only by the world around us, but by something that’s embedded deeper in us, undisturbed by the requirements of the outside world and the society in which we live in. Sometimes those unconscious demands even clash with our conscious goals.
I challenge you to look inside yourself, and most importantly be honest to yourself, and realize those unconscious demands. Why? Because that way you will understand the place where you are now, the pathway, the milestones, and the decisions that got you here and your present life will make more sense.
Besides knowing what we want to be, we should also have the answer to: “who do I want to be?”
If our unconscious mind brought us here, shouldn’t it be the right place to be?
This is my Home by the Sea, and once I’ve realized this is what I’ve (unconsciously) always wanted, I am more than happy with it.